Free to be Me

We all have friends, associate or those in our lives that think that they know what’s best for us-better than we know for ourselves.  We should be thankful for people in our lives that will take the time to care about our well-being; those that will speak wholesome words and sage advice into our lives.

However, no one wants a controlling spouse, friend, or associate criticizing, putting down, or belittling our decisions, choices, or dreams.  Life can be hard enough without others or even the ones you love dumping on your aspirations, ideas, or thoughts.

With human nature, we are drawn to those that encourage us; the ones that contribute to our happiness. Those that speak life to us, those whose words are seasoned with grace, and those that have proven to us that they love us can correct us in such a way that love still is the dominant trait that is conveyed.

It is said of opinions, that they are like morning breath; we all have it and nine times out of ten, it all stinks.  Everyone is entitled to their opinion; however, it’s not your job or duty to always share it.  Your opinion is just that, your opinion.  If you are not within the inner circle and have been released to share or you’ve been asked to share your opinion, then keep it to yourself.  You may be more of a burden to a person rather than a blessing by your unrequested response.  So be a blessing by keeping silent; it’s golden.

If it’s not immoral, illegal, or unethical you gain nothing by inserting or imposing your thoughts or feelings into someone else’s life.  You may be resented for doing so, especially if you’re not as close or a part of the inner circle as you supposed.

Finding one’s self is an individual journey, it’s a part of "life discovery."  We continue to learn about ourselves every day; we continue to grow.  We are becoming; becoming the best person that we can be.  It would be nice if we could do it within the confines of our own selves, however life was not designed that way.   

There are obstacles that we must overcome, grow from, and go from.  This exercise in life will strengthen you and aid you in becoming.  Learning to free yourself from insignificant opinions is a part of that growth.  Determine which opinions don’t matter or what advice to discard and continue boldly on with your life’s journey.  No one can beat you at being yourself, trust me you’re an expert at it.

This has been your 80 seconds of encouragement.

Tims2Centz